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Losing a dog is one of the hardest things dog owners have to deal with at some point. Because of the deep connection and bond we share with our pets, we feel hurt when they die. When giving condolences, out of nervousness, some people say lots of things which end up making the grieving person feel worse.
Because of this, it’s best to keep things simple when giving your condolences. Tell the grieving person you’re sorry about what has happened and let him know you’re there for him. You can also do any of the following to make things more personal – send some flowers, buy a sympathy card, donate to a local animal organization in the dead dog’s name or plant a tree in the dog’s name. You can also buy a small gift, for example at

Here are three things you shouldn’tsay to someone who’s grieving the death of his dog:

Don’t Ask When They’re Getting Another Dog


When are you getting another one? This is a question that you should be careful not to ask a person who has just lost a dog. Even if he plans to get another dog, this isn’t the time to bring it up.
Why? Because the person is grieving the loss of a pet that was very dear to him.
Asking such a question undermine the grieving process and makes him feel like the dog is replaceable. Dogs aren’t replaceable. It isn’t easy to forget the strong bond that develops when you’ve loved and cared for your dog for several years. You’ll feel hurt and traumatized the same way you do when you lose a friend or family member.
So, don’t make the grieving person feel worse by suggesting that he should get another pet and move on with life. It’s much better to keep your condolence as simple as possible.

Don’t Ask For The Details

When you call or visit someone who has just lost a dog, you may find yourself asking, “What happened?” While you may be genuinely interested in knowing how the pet died, understand that it’s not easy or comfortable talking about such details when one is grieving.
Telling the story of how your dog died to different people is excruciating and exhausting, to say the least, so don’t be surprised if your request for the details is turned down. Alternatively, the
grieving person may talk to you, but he’ll sob a lot in the process because of the pain he’s feeling. So just give your condolences without asking for the details. If the grieving person wants to open up to you, he’ll do so later when he’s ready.

Don’t Give Unsolicited Advice On How The Death Could Have Been Prevented


You may mean well when offering advice on how the dead dog would have been saved. However, such unsolicited advice will only make the owner feel awful. He’ll feel like he didn’t make the “right” choices and that’s why his pet died. What the grieving person needs is your support, not your opinion. Just assure him you’re there for him no matter what.

These are some of the things you should stop telling a person who has lost a dog from now on. Offer words of comfort and assurance instead and always remember to keep your condolences short and to their point.